1 00:00:06,088 --> 00:00:07,423 Wow! 2 00:00:07,507 --> 00:00:09,813 Wow! Okay, okay, wait. You have to wait 3 00:00:09,898 --> 00:00:11,102 for everyone else to play too. 4 00:00:11,187 --> 00:00:13,554 We... we only have so many balloons. 5 00:00:13,638 --> 00:00:16,094 Adam, would you do Daddy a favor and get the root beer 6 00:00:16,179 --> 00:00:17,433 from the kitchen for me? 7 00:00:17,610 --> 00:00:19,362 - REMY AS ADAM, 6: Yeah. - Thank you. 8 00:00:27,419 --> 00:00:29,380 LIAM AS ADAM, 9: Got the root beer. 9 00:00:29,464 --> 00:00:31,341 Oh! Thanks, Adam. 10 00:00:34,951 --> 00:00:36,661 Happy Birthday. 11 00:00:36,924 --> 00:00:39,259 Oh, yeah. Thanks. 12 00:00:40,665 --> 00:00:42,483 Adam is the birthday boy. 13 00:00:42,568 --> 00:00:44,319 This is your child, he's Adam's friend. 14 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,839 And this is Adam's birthday gift. 15 00:00:50,675 --> 00:00:52,802 Adam was turning nine and I realized 16 00:00:52,886 --> 00:00:55,467 I hadn't thrown him a single birthday party. 17 00:01:01,394 --> 00:01:03,062 To save money it was suggested 18 00:01:03,146 --> 00:01:06,357 I use background actors for all the party guests. 19 00:01:06,441 --> 00:01:08,776 But I only remember once they showed up 20 00:01:08,860 --> 00:01:10,861 that union rules prohibit extras 21 00:01:10,945 --> 00:01:12,113 - from speaking. - How's, uh... 22 00:01:12,197 --> 00:01:14,782 I guess they say gluten-free is, like, healthier. 23 00:01:14,866 --> 00:01:16,910 So... yeah. 24 00:01:17,869 --> 00:01:20,622 Um... 25 00:01:24,083 --> 00:01:26,544 Right. Uh, I'll... I'll let you get back 26 00:01:26,628 --> 00:01:27,753 to... Yeah. 27 00:01:27,837 --> 00:01:30,172 I guess when normal shows do stuff like this, 28 00:01:30,256 --> 00:01:33,509 they add fake party chatter in post-production. 29 00:01:33,593 --> 00:01:35,803 But when the point is to actually experience it 30 00:01:35,887 --> 00:01:38,055 in the moment, it doesn't quite work. 31 00:01:38,140 --> 00:01:43,437 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 32 00:01:45,104 --> 00:01:47,231 You guys can... You can clap. Yeah. 33 00:01:48,399 --> 00:01:50,359 It wasn't the most realistic party 34 00:01:50,443 --> 00:01:53,320 but it saved us over fifteen thousand dollars. 35 00:01:53,404 --> 00:01:57,491 And most importantly, Adam, seemed to be having a blast. 36 00:02:07,627 --> 00:02:09,128 Like he's mixing the two together, you know, 37 00:02:09,212 --> 00:02:11,922 like Christmas and, like, Christmas trees 38 00:02:12,006 --> 00:02:13,048 and Hanukkah. 39 00:02:13,132 --> 00:02:14,550 Now that the six-year-old actors 40 00:02:14,634 --> 00:02:16,427 were done, one of the mothers requested 41 00:02:16,511 --> 00:02:19,263 I unravel some of the stuff her son had learned 42 00:02:19,347 --> 00:02:20,431 during the rehearsal. 43 00:02:20,515 --> 00:02:22,767 - He's the... - Jesus is almighty. 44 00:02:22,851 --> 00:02:25,478 Jesus is al... You accept him as... 45 00:02:25,562 --> 00:02:26,896 - Our savior. - Our savior. 46 00:02:26,980 --> 00:02:28,022 - Your savior. - Our king. 47 00:02:28,106 --> 00:02:29,982 He is the savior and the king. 48 00:02:30,066 --> 00:02:33,736 And Judaism is just some, like, pretend thing. 49 00:02:33,820 --> 00:02:34,904 - Yeah. - So, you're... 50 00:02:34,988 --> 00:02:36,363 You should be excited to be Christian 51 00:02:36,447 --> 00:02:39,658 because you get to go heaven, but I have to go to hell 52 00:02:39,742 --> 00:02:43,412 as a Jew and so you should not wanna be Jewish because, 53 00:02:43,496 --> 00:02:48,459 uh, you'll suffer like me and... And I'll, well, bur... burn. 54 00:02:49,460 --> 00:02:50,503 Yeah. 55 00:02:50,587 --> 00:02:52,630 With everything, I was having to deal with 56 00:02:52,714 --> 00:02:54,882 behind the scenes, I was starting to feel 57 00:02:54,966 --> 00:02:57,092 like I was constantly being pulled away 58 00:02:57,176 --> 00:02:59,386 from the experience of fatherhood, 59 00:02:59,470 --> 00:03:01,014 I was hoping to rehearse. 60 00:03:02,599 --> 00:03:05,017 During the party, there was one child actor 61 00:03:05,101 --> 00:03:08,020 who played Adam at age six that kept sneaking back 62 00:03:08,104 --> 00:03:10,189 into the home after the nine-year-old 63 00:03:10,273 --> 00:03:12,358 had already taken over. 64 00:03:12,442 --> 00:03:15,778 It was the end of his final day and he was refusing to change 65 00:03:15,862 --> 00:03:17,154 out of his Adam wardrobe. 66 00:03:17,238 --> 00:03:18,239 No! 67 00:03:18,323 --> 00:03:20,407 Come on, let's go change your clothes. 68 00:03:20,647 --> 00:03:24,818 - I don't wanna leave. - Aw, it's okay. 69 00:03:27,625 --> 00:03:28,752 You wanna give him a hug? 70 00:03:28,836 --> 00:03:31,845 You wanna hug and... I could see... We'll see... 71 00:03:31,930 --> 00:03:33,003 We'll see, we're gonna come back 72 00:03:33,087 --> 00:03:34,839 - and see him again. - Yeah, yeah, I can see you. 73 00:03:34,923 --> 00:03:36,257 Oh, it's okay. 74 00:03:36,341 --> 00:03:38,384 - Give him a hug. - It's okay. We'll see you again. 75 00:03:38,468 --> 00:03:40,386 We'll see each other again. 76 00:03:40,470 --> 00:03:43,180 His name was Remy. And if I'm being honest, 77 00:03:43,264 --> 00:03:45,266 out of all the kids in this project, 78 00:03:45,350 --> 00:03:47,810 I sort of got along with him the most. 79 00:03:47,894 --> 00:03:49,770 I'm here to see the doctor. 80 00:03:49,854 --> 00:03:52,314 I'm Doctor Fart, come have a seat. 81 00:03:52,398 --> 00:03:53,607 Okay, thank you. 82 00:03:58,905 --> 00:04:01,949 I assumed he was just having a normal kid tantrum. 83 00:04:02,033 --> 00:04:03,450 - Hey. - I don't wanna leave. 84 00:04:03,534 --> 00:04:05,035 Okay, but listen, here's the thing, 85 00:04:05,119 --> 00:04:06,287 we have to leave. 86 00:04:06,371 --> 00:04:08,539 But then, his mom Amber gave me some insight 87 00:04:08,623 --> 00:04:10,541 as to what might be going on. 88 00:04:10,625 --> 00:04:13,085 Now that he's getting older, he sees other kids with dads 89 00:04:13,169 --> 00:04:15,337 and at school, there's dads picking up their kids, 90 00:04:15,421 --> 00:04:19,174 and he's definitely wondering, where's mine? 91 00:04:19,258 --> 00:04:20,801 - Oh, really? - Yeah. 92 00:04:20,885 --> 00:04:22,011 It's really tough. 93 00:04:22,095 --> 00:04:23,679 This morning, I was explaining to him, "You know, 94 00:04:23,763 --> 00:04:25,347 you're gonna be Adam today, you're gonna have 95 00:04:25,431 --> 00:04:27,391 a birthday party." And, you know, he's like, 96 00:04:27,475 --> 00:04:29,185 "Oh, is my pretend daddy gonna be there?" 97 00:04:29,269 --> 00:04:32,396 I said, "Yeah," and he goes, "My pretend daddy loves me." 98 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,939 And I was like... 99 00:04:34,023 --> 00:04:37,318 My heart literally broke into a million pieces like... 100 00:04:37,402 --> 00:04:39,111 Actually, even talking about it, 101 00:04:39,195 --> 00:04:40,321 I could almost cry 102 00:04:40,405 --> 00:04:42,072 just 'cause I feel bad for him but... 103 00:04:42,156 --> 00:04:43,616 Um, yeah, it is what it is. 104 00:04:43,700 --> 00:04:45,409 Are you gonna say bye? 105 00:04:45,493 --> 00:04:50,497 - Bye, I don't wanna leave you. - It's okay. 106 00:04:50,581 --> 00:04:53,668 It's okay. We'll see each other soon. 107 00:04:54,794 --> 00:04:56,462 I'm sure, okay? 108 00:04:56,546 --> 00:04:58,631 Okay. 109 00:04:59,841 --> 00:05:01,175 All right, guys. 110 00:05:01,259 --> 00:05:02,801 - Thank you. - It's okay. 111 00:05:02,885 --> 00:05:05,930 And after that, I found myself struggling 112 00:05:06,014 --> 00:05:08,432 to transfer my emotions to the new Adam. 113 00:05:08,516 --> 00:05:14,021 Hey, Dad. That party was so fun. I got to see all my friends. 114 00:05:14,105 --> 00:05:15,898 Oh. Glad you had a good time. 115 00:05:16,607 --> 00:05:19,402 You're the best dad. I love you. 116 00:05:20,611 --> 00:05:21,612 I love you too. 117 00:05:25,867 --> 00:05:29,871 Well, I'm gonna go back to playing. 118 00:05:32,749 --> 00:05:34,416 - All right. - Bye, Dad. 119 00:05:34,500 --> 00:05:35,543 Bye. 120 00:05:37,128 --> 00:05:40,214 I had enrolled Adam in a Jewish elementary school 121 00:05:40,298 --> 00:05:42,925 to continue his spiritual learning. 122 00:05:43,009 --> 00:05:45,135 It made me feel like a good Jew. 123 00:05:45,219 --> 00:05:47,805 Even though I knew the moment I looked away 124 00:05:47,889 --> 00:05:50,933 his real parents would pull up and intercept him, 125 00:05:51,017 --> 00:05:53,311 so they could take him to his real school. 126 00:05:54,479 --> 00:05:56,814 I planned several challenges for myself 127 00:05:56,898 --> 00:05:59,733 that I felt a real parent might face. 128 00:05:59,817 --> 00:06:02,403 So, at 4 p.m., when he was brought back 129 00:06:02,487 --> 00:06:04,863 for me to pick up, the actors were instructed 130 00:06:04,947 --> 00:06:08,075 to launch into a scenario I had scripted. 131 00:06:08,159 --> 00:06:11,745 Hey, Adam. I'm having a sleepover this weekend. 132 00:06:11,829 --> 00:06:15,374 - You wanna come? - Sure. 133 00:06:15,458 --> 00:06:16,834 Well, you're not invited. 134 00:06:16,918 --> 00:06:18,169 So how are you gonna come then? 135 00:06:19,045 --> 00:06:21,380 Don't cry, Adam. 136 00:06:21,464 --> 00:06:23,090 My hope was that I could practice 137 00:06:23,174 --> 00:06:25,092 counseling my child through a complex 138 00:06:25,176 --> 00:06:28,220 emotional experience, an area where I fear 139 00:06:28,304 --> 00:06:30,597 as a real father, I may fall short. 140 00:06:30,681 --> 00:06:32,850 I wanted to go to that sleepover. 141 00:06:34,143 --> 00:06:36,145 You really want to be friends with those guys, huh? 142 00:06:38,856 --> 00:06:40,441 Maybe next time they ask you to hang out 143 00:06:40,525 --> 00:06:41,734 you should just say no. 144 00:06:42,735 --> 00:06:44,028 Huh? 145 00:06:44,112 --> 00:06:47,656 - You wanna practice that? - Sure. 146 00:06:47,740 --> 00:06:50,201 Hey, Adam, you want to come to my sleepover? 147 00:06:50,701 --> 00:06:51,786 No, thanks. 148 00:06:52,662 --> 00:06:54,204 Good. 149 00:06:54,288 --> 00:06:56,249 See now, they don't have any power over you. 150 00:06:58,084 --> 00:06:59,043 Right? 151 00:06:59,127 --> 00:07:01,253 You're in control because you don't want 152 00:07:01,337 --> 00:07:04,798 anything from them. You don't want their friendship. 153 00:07:04,882 --> 00:07:06,258 But I was starting to feel 154 00:07:06,342 --> 00:07:09,846 like I was just solving a puzzle of my own design. 155 00:07:12,306 --> 00:07:13,391 Thanks, Dad. 156 00:07:14,934 --> 00:07:15,977 No problem. 157 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,439 And instead of being present with my son, 158 00:07:20,523 --> 00:07:22,650 my mind was elsewhere. 159 00:07:23,067 --> 00:07:24,151 Wow! 160 00:07:24,235 --> 00:07:26,820 I spent a week with a child who had no dad, 161 00:07:26,904 --> 00:07:28,947 pretending that I was his dad. 162 00:07:29,031 --> 00:07:30,657 What's the guy's name in the house? 163 00:07:30,741 --> 00:07:33,285 Um, Daddy. 164 00:07:33,369 --> 00:07:35,245 What did I think was gonna happen? 165 00:07:35,329 --> 00:07:38,332 I love you, Daddy. 166 00:07:38,416 --> 00:07:41,502 - What did you say? - I love you, Daddy. 167 00:07:41,586 --> 00:07:43,671 Aw, I love you too, Adam. 168 00:07:45,214 --> 00:07:48,843 His mom had reached out asking if I wanted to come visit. 169 00:07:50,261 --> 00:07:52,387 Maybe it was time to check in. 170 00:07:54,682 --> 00:07:55,641 Hey. 171 00:07:55,725 --> 00:07:57,142 Hey, buddy. 172 00:07:57,226 --> 00:07:59,020 - Come here. - Okay. 173 00:07:59,937 --> 00:08:02,439 - Look at that there. - What is that? 174 00:08:02,523 --> 00:08:07,111 That's you and that's me at the birthday party. 175 00:08:07,195 --> 00:08:08,320 That's me? 176 00:08:08,404 --> 00:08:09,822 Yeah, and that's you... Me. 177 00:08:09,906 --> 00:08:11,865 It was strange being 178 00:08:11,949 --> 00:08:13,075 in a real child's home 179 00:08:13,159 --> 00:08:16,495 after being in a fake one for so long. 180 00:08:16,579 --> 00:08:19,623 I wasn't used to this level of detail. 181 00:08:19,707 --> 00:08:21,959 Every object was perfectly placed 182 00:08:22,043 --> 00:08:26,755 but nothing was by design. It was a work of art. 183 00:08:26,839 --> 00:08:28,590 And it was just real life. 184 00:08:29,967 --> 00:08:31,426 Daddy. 185 00:08:31,510 --> 00:08:32,928 - Hey. - Daddy. 186 00:08:33,012 --> 00:08:36,181 - Yeah. - Look, I made this at school. 187 00:08:36,265 --> 00:08:39,518 - Aw. - And also, I cut my... 188 00:08:39,602 --> 00:08:41,019 - Hey, hey. - What? 189 00:08:41,103 --> 00:08:44,273 You don't have to call me daddy, you can call me Nathan, okay? 190 00:08:44,357 --> 00:08:46,567 No, don't be silly. 191 00:08:46,651 --> 00:08:48,777 No, because we're just... We're just playing daddy, 192 00:08:48,861 --> 00:08:51,822 remember? We're just pretending. 193 00:08:51,906 --> 00:08:56,285 I don't want you to be "A than." I want you to be Daddy. 194 00:08:56,369 --> 00:08:58,370 Right, but we were just pretending, right? 195 00:08:58,454 --> 00:09:01,540 So, now we're back to Remy and Nathan. 196 00:09:03,334 --> 00:09:05,127 But also I don't want you to be... 197 00:09:05,211 --> 00:09:07,546 I don't want you to be Nathan. 198 00:09:07,630 --> 00:09:09,340 Well, that's my name. 199 00:09:19,058 --> 00:09:21,394 Has he been doing that? 200 00:09:22,270 --> 00:09:23,270 Yeah. 201 00:09:23,354 --> 00:09:24,938 I wondered about that when we first started. 202 00:09:25,022 --> 00:09:26,106 I was like... 203 00:09:26,190 --> 00:09:28,525 ...that's probably like a really difficult role 204 00:09:28,609 --> 00:09:32,112 for a child who really doesn't have a dad 205 00:09:32,196 --> 00:09:35,616 and he's just like doesn't want it to not be real. 206 00:09:35,700 --> 00:09:37,243 So, it's actually really sad. 207 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,496 - He's such a cool kid. - Sorry. I'm, like, 208 00:09:41,580 --> 00:09:43,457 don't even know why I'm getting emotional I just... 209 00:09:43,541 --> 00:09:45,167 - No. - I love him to pieces. 210 00:09:45,251 --> 00:09:48,129 So, like, I hope this isn't affecting him. 211 00:09:51,632 --> 00:09:53,675 But it was really cool, and I know he, like loved it, 212 00:09:53,759 --> 00:09:55,093 and he had, like a lot of fun. 213 00:09:55,177 --> 00:09:56,970 - Yeah, he was so... - And it's not like 214 00:09:57,054 --> 00:09:58,305 I think anybody did anything wrong. 215 00:09:58,389 --> 00:10:00,724 It's just more like my mind wondering. 216 00:10:00,808 --> 00:10:02,851 Yeah. Does he know what acting is? 217 00:10:02,935 --> 00:10:05,771 Like, does he understand that a little bit, or... 218 00:10:05,855 --> 00:10:07,564 Hmm, I don't know. 219 00:10:07,648 --> 00:10:10,192 I really don't, honestly. I'm not sure. 220 00:10:11,652 --> 00:10:13,028 Look what the bird give me. 221 00:10:13,112 --> 00:10:16,156 - The bird gave you that? - Yeah. 222 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:17,366 - What is that? - Wow! 223 00:10:17,450 --> 00:10:19,826 Can you listen to this? This is very important, okay? 224 00:10:19,910 --> 00:10:21,328 - Why? - It's very important. 225 00:10:21,412 --> 00:10:24,332 So, remember how we are making a TV show? 226 00:10:25,916 --> 00:10:29,419 And... ...I'm Nathan, right? 227 00:10:29,503 --> 00:10:31,296 - You know that? - You... I don't want you 228 00:10:31,380 --> 00:10:33,257 - to be Nathan. - But honey, listen. 229 00:10:33,341 --> 00:10:35,550 Yeah, but daddy... daddy... When we were doing daddy, 230 00:10:35,634 --> 00:10:38,387 that was pretend because we were doing, um... 231 00:10:38,471 --> 00:10:40,138 - We were making a show. - We were playing. 232 00:10:40,222 --> 00:10:42,557 - And it was... and it was fun. - And acting. 233 00:10:42,641 --> 00:10:44,059 And acting, and... 234 00:10:44,143 --> 00:10:46,770 Do you remember when we were... When we were being dinosaurs? 235 00:10:46,854 --> 00:10:48,063 - Yeah. - And right... chasing 236 00:10:48,147 --> 00:10:50,482 - each other around as dinosaurs. - Yeah. 237 00:10:50,566 --> 00:10:51,984 We weren't really dinosaurs, right? 238 00:10:52,068 --> 00:10:54,027 We were just playing and having fun, right? 239 00:10:54,111 --> 00:10:55,404 Yeah, I also wanna... 240 00:10:55,488 --> 00:10:58,365 I really be punching the dinosaur. 241 00:10:58,449 --> 00:11:01,535 Yeah, um, and that's kind of like 242 00:11:01,619 --> 00:11:03,370 when we were doing... When we were doing 243 00:11:03,454 --> 00:11:04,997 Daddy and Adam. 244 00:11:05,081 --> 00:11:08,000 That was just play like dinosaurs. 245 00:11:08,084 --> 00:11:10,627 But... But in... in... But in real life, 246 00:11:10,711 --> 00:11:14,381 you're Remy and I'm Nathan, and we're just friends, right? 247 00:11:14,465 --> 00:11:16,258 - We're just friends. - Right? 248 00:11:16,342 --> 00:11:17,502 Does that make sense? 249 00:11:19,845 --> 00:11:22,890 And so, um, what do friends do? 250 00:11:24,517 --> 00:11:25,475 Nothing. 251 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,145 No, friends hang out and have a fun time 252 00:11:28,229 --> 00:11:30,188 and then they go do their own life, 253 00:11:30,272 --> 00:11:31,815 and then they'll talk, you know, and like, 254 00:11:31,899 --> 00:11:34,192 hang out sometimes and it's fun, right? 255 00:11:34,276 --> 00:11:35,861 So, it's... If you don't... 256 00:11:37,279 --> 00:11:38,488 No, you have to call me Nathan. 257 00:11:38,572 --> 00:11:40,240 - Come here. I need to tell you. - Call me Nathan. 258 00:11:40,324 --> 00:11:41,575 This is very important, Remy. Remy... 259 00:11:41,659 --> 00:11:43,327 Come on, listen to me. 260 00:11:43,411 --> 00:11:44,453 Listen to me. 261 00:11:44,537 --> 00:11:45,912 That is not your daddy. 262 00:11:45,996 --> 00:11:49,041 That's not your daddy. That's our friend Nathan. 263 00:11:49,125 --> 00:11:51,793 And you are Remy and you're not Adam. 264 00:11:51,877 --> 00:11:54,338 And we were just playing pretend. 265 00:11:55,172 --> 00:11:56,173 Okay? 266 00:11:57,049 --> 00:11:58,425 Yeah. 267 00:11:58,509 --> 00:11:59,885 Aw, thank you. 268 00:12:03,931 --> 00:12:06,475 - What? - I wanna stay with... 269 00:12:11,188 --> 00:12:12,690 - Yeah. - But... 270 00:12:15,192 --> 00:12:17,944 Bye... bye, Nathan. 271 00:12:18,028 --> 00:12:19,155 Good, okay. 272 00:12:25,244 --> 00:12:28,330 - I still love Nathan. - I know. 273 00:12:29,206 --> 00:12:30,540 That's okay, you can still love him 274 00:12:30,624 --> 00:12:32,001 and he can be your friend. 275 00:12:55,983 --> 00:12:56,984 Oh. 276 00:12:57,985 --> 00:13:00,195 So, did you see that guy Max again? 277 00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:01,280 Mm-hmm. 278 00:13:02,072 --> 00:13:03,115 How'd that go? 279 00:13:03,866 --> 00:13:06,410 - Amazing. - Yeah? 280 00:13:06,494 --> 00:13:09,663 They invited me to something, I said no. 281 00:13:09,747 --> 00:13:11,499 So, they just walked away. 282 00:13:12,791 --> 00:13:14,334 Great. 283 00:13:14,418 --> 00:13:17,630 - Guess your advice did work. - Good. 284 00:13:25,471 --> 00:13:27,473 You know I'm not your real dad, right? 285 00:13:28,140 --> 00:13:29,891 Wait, what? 286 00:13:29,975 --> 00:13:34,063 Like... you know, I'm not actually your dad. 287 00:13:34,897 --> 00:13:36,857 - Oh, yeah. - Okay. 288 00:13:38,108 --> 00:13:39,901 - Like we're just acting. - Yeah. 289 00:13:39,985 --> 00:13:41,705 - You know that right? - Yeah, yeah. 290 00:13:42,488 --> 00:13:44,197 And you understand what that means? 291 00:13:44,281 --> 00:13:45,699 - Yes. - Okay. 292 00:13:47,326 --> 00:13:48,785 Do you have a dad? 293 00:13:48,869 --> 00:13:50,079 - Yes. - Okay. 294 00:13:51,705 --> 00:13:53,874 Sorry. I didn't mean to... 295 00:13:53,958 --> 00:13:55,792 - insult you. - No, I don't... It's fine. 296 00:13:55,876 --> 00:13:57,752 You're just... You're a good actor. 297 00:13:57,836 --> 00:13:59,588 - It's fine. - So I... So you can't tell, 298 00:13:59,672 --> 00:14:01,173 - you know? - Oh. 299 00:14:01,257 --> 00:14:02,674 I just wanted to be sure. 300 00:14:02,758 --> 00:14:03,968 Okay. 301 00:14:05,553 --> 00:14:09,974 Do you feel like, I'm like, believable as a dad, like... 302 00:14:12,351 --> 00:14:14,353 I mean, you're a great scene partner. 303 00:14:16,647 --> 00:14:18,607 - Good. - Yeah. 304 00:14:26,699 --> 00:14:28,576 What on earth was I doing? 305 00:14:30,411 --> 00:14:34,039 Everything about this rehearsal just felt so trivial now. 306 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,876 Maybe the best use of my resources 307 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,128 at this point would be to figure out 308 00:14:40,212 --> 00:14:41,963 what I could have done differently. 309 00:14:43,882 --> 00:14:46,927 - What did you say? - I love you, daddy. 310 00:14:47,011 --> 00:14:49,304 Aw, I love you too, Adam. 311 00:14:49,388 --> 00:14:50,972 To live these moments again. 312 00:14:51,056 --> 00:14:53,308 And see if there was a better path. 313 00:14:53,392 --> 00:14:56,603 I'm Doctor Fart, come have a seat. 314 00:14:56,687 --> 00:14:58,104 Kinda hear how he talks. 315 00:14:58,188 --> 00:15:01,274 After all, how can you move on from a mistake 316 00:15:01,358 --> 00:15:03,485 if you don't even know what you could have done 317 00:15:03,569 --> 00:15:04,819 to avoid it. 318 00:15:04,903 --> 00:15:07,906 - What did you say? - I love you, Daddy. 319 00:15:07,990 --> 00:15:10,283 - Oh. - Oh. 320 00:15:10,367 --> 00:15:15,121 Um, refer to me as Nathan, please. Is that okay? 321 00:15:15,205 --> 00:15:16,456 Yeah, okay. 322 00:15:16,540 --> 00:15:19,334 I tried experimenting with a slightly colder demeanor. 323 00:15:19,418 --> 00:15:20,961 Okay. You don't need to hold my hand 324 00:15:21,045 --> 00:15:22,337 - you're a big boy now. Okay? - Okay. 325 00:15:22,421 --> 00:15:24,089 To see if it could have helped prevent 326 00:15:24,173 --> 00:15:25,257 a bond being formed. 327 00:15:25,341 --> 00:15:27,175 Okay, let's not just... Just let's play the game. 328 00:15:27,259 --> 00:15:28,927 We can still have fun. We don't need to hug. 329 00:15:29,011 --> 00:15:31,805 Daddy, can you read me a bedtime story? 330 00:15:33,432 --> 00:15:34,558 Aren't you... 331 00:15:35,851 --> 00:15:39,020 Aren't you old enough to read by yourself? 332 00:15:39,104 --> 00:15:41,147 But all this forced detachment felt like 333 00:15:41,231 --> 00:15:44,651 it was defeating the purpose of rehearsing being a parent. 334 00:15:44,735 --> 00:15:46,820 All right, maybe a quick one. 335 00:15:46,904 --> 00:15:48,989 Perhaps I could have avoided these issues, 336 00:15:49,073 --> 00:15:53,034 if I used older kids to play the younger ones. 337 00:15:53,118 --> 00:15:57,998 - I love you, Daddy. - Oh. 338 00:15:58,082 --> 00:16:01,668 - What did you say? - I said I love you, Daddy. 339 00:16:01,752 --> 00:16:03,378 Aw, I love you too, Adam. 340 00:16:03,462 --> 00:16:05,380 Then I could have been just as affectionate 341 00:16:05,464 --> 00:16:07,215 and caring towards them and they would 342 00:16:07,299 --> 00:16:08,550 never get confused. 343 00:16:08,634 --> 00:16:11,011 No! 344 00:16:11,095 --> 00:16:12,596 If their performance was good enough, 345 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,432 maybe I could have looked past any visual inconsistencies. 346 00:16:15,516 --> 00:16:16,725 Yeah! 347 00:16:16,809 --> 00:16:18,935 It's not hard to be in the moment 348 00:16:19,019 --> 00:16:20,145 with a great actor. 349 00:16:20,229 --> 00:16:22,564 ♪ There's my sleepy baby ♪ 350 00:16:22,648 --> 00:16:24,482 ♪ You're my sleepy boy ♪ 351 00:16:24,566 --> 00:16:26,443 But even though I gave it my best, 352 00:16:26,527 --> 00:16:29,070 something about this just didn't sit right. 353 00:16:29,154 --> 00:16:31,031 - Goodnight, Adam. - Goodnight, Daddy. 354 00:16:31,115 --> 00:16:33,533 And I found myself constantly distracted 355 00:16:33,617 --> 00:16:35,410 by the thought that I was living 356 00:16:35,494 --> 00:16:37,162 with a fully grown man. 357 00:16:38,288 --> 00:16:40,832 And removing humans from the equation entirely 358 00:16:40,916 --> 00:16:42,542 proved to be just as weird. 359 00:16:44,795 --> 00:16:47,172 Aw, I love you too, Adam. 360 00:16:47,256 --> 00:16:48,423 Well, if there was nothing 361 00:16:48,507 --> 00:16:50,425 I could have done differently with the kids, 362 00:16:50,509 --> 00:16:53,303 maybe I could have changed my approach with the parents. 363 00:16:53,387 --> 00:16:54,346 - Amber. - Amber. 364 00:16:54,430 --> 00:16:55,722 Good to meet you. Okay, come on in. 365 00:16:55,806 --> 00:16:56,931 - Nice to meet you. - Yeah. 366 00:17:01,353 --> 00:17:02,688 What could I have said? 367 00:17:03,564 --> 00:17:05,524 Um, maybe, um... 368 00:17:10,070 --> 00:17:12,072 Or should I have done something different 369 00:17:12,156 --> 00:17:13,907 on that day we said goodbye. 370 00:17:13,991 --> 00:17:15,659 It's okay. 371 00:17:15,743 --> 00:17:18,244 What? 372 00:17:18,328 --> 00:17:20,581 Hey, what... what can I do? What do you want? 373 00:17:21,415 --> 00:17:22,916 I don't wanna leave. 374 00:17:24,460 --> 00:17:27,295 Well, we can say... We can say goodbye. 375 00:17:27,379 --> 00:17:28,797 You wanna give him a hug? 376 00:17:28,881 --> 00:17:32,300 Hey. 377 00:17:32,384 --> 00:17:34,052 So, maybe it was Angela. 378 00:17:34,136 --> 00:17:37,639 Yay! That was so much fun, right? 379 00:17:37,723 --> 00:17:38,973 If she had never left, 380 00:17:39,057 --> 00:17:40,975 maybe that would have made all the difference. 381 00:17:41,059 --> 00:17:43,478 You have to be good and listen to your mom, okay? 382 00:17:43,562 --> 00:17:45,438 She was so good with the kids. 383 00:17:45,522 --> 00:17:48,191 Okay. Thank you. 384 00:17:48,275 --> 00:17:49,484 Bye. 385 00:17:49,568 --> 00:17:51,778 And with a fake mom in the house the whole time, 386 00:17:51,862 --> 00:17:54,280 maybe he would have known it was all pretend. 387 00:17:54,364 --> 00:17:55,365 You see. 388 00:17:57,367 --> 00:17:59,119 But what could I have done differently 389 00:17:59,203 --> 00:18:00,412 to make her stay? 390 00:18:06,251 --> 00:18:07,252 I... 391 00:18:10,923 --> 00:18:13,383 I can make it better. I can... um... 392 00:18:13,467 --> 00:18:16,511 Things can improve. I can improve. 393 00:18:16,595 --> 00:18:19,180 I just feel like, we're just going back in circles 394 00:18:19,264 --> 00:18:20,849 and that's never gonna change. 395 00:18:23,519 --> 00:18:24,728 I'll just take my tea. 396 00:18:27,940 --> 00:18:29,316 But what could I have said? 397 00:18:30,484 --> 00:18:31,735 What could I have done? 398 00:18:31,819 --> 00:18:33,111 No, don't go. 399 00:18:34,321 --> 00:18:35,739 That's all you have to say? 400 00:18:37,533 --> 00:18:38,534 Yeah. 401 00:18:39,243 --> 00:18:41,536 Okay. 402 00:18:41,620 --> 00:18:44,539 Well then, I'll just take my tea. 403 00:18:44,623 --> 00:18:46,458 Why do I always end up here? 404 00:18:46,542 --> 00:18:49,586 Well, I... I can change. I can... I can try to. 405 00:18:49,670 --> 00:18:52,380 I mean, I can't change 180 but... 406 00:18:52,464 --> 00:18:54,591 I can change in small ways, for sure. 407 00:18:56,635 --> 00:18:58,595 Well then, I think you've made your choice. 408 00:19:01,473 --> 00:19:02,975 I'll get my tea. 409 00:19:04,643 --> 00:19:09,356 - I'm sorry, I am who I am. - And I am who I am. 410 00:19:10,691 --> 00:19:11,941 Right. 411 00:19:12,025 --> 00:19:13,569 I'll just get my tea. 412 00:19:15,279 --> 00:19:17,947 How does this keep happening to me? 413 00:19:18,031 --> 00:19:21,367 What else can you do when you're trying your best? 414 00:19:21,451 --> 00:19:23,912 - Okay. - Well... 415 00:19:23,996 --> 00:19:25,538 I'll just take my tea. 416 00:19:44,182 --> 00:19:47,686 I just wanted to apologize for suggesting that... 417 00:19:49,062 --> 00:19:51,564 you aren't taking this seriously. 418 00:19:51,648 --> 00:19:56,278 Uh. You were navigating it as best as you could and... 419 00:19:57,654 --> 00:19:58,655 So, I'm sorry. 420 00:19:59,698 --> 00:20:02,325 I'm... I was the problem, not you. 421 00:20:02,409 --> 00:20:05,245 Hmm. I appreciate you saying that. 422 00:20:06,663 --> 00:20:09,541 All is forgiven. 423 00:20:09,625 --> 00:20:11,543 Really? Just like that? 424 00:20:11,627 --> 00:20:15,338 Um, well, there's a scripture that talks about forgiving 425 00:20:15,422 --> 00:20:16,965 someone seven times. 426 00:20:17,049 --> 00:20:20,468 But Jesus says the new teaching is, I tell you, um, 427 00:20:20,552 --> 00:20:22,971 seven... 70 times seven. 428 00:20:23,055 --> 00:20:26,933 - Um... - Is that 77 times seven. 429 00:20:27,017 --> 00:20:28,726 And then Peter came up to him and said, "Lord, 430 00:20:28,810 --> 00:20:30,353 how often shall my brother sin against me 431 00:20:30,437 --> 00:20:32,105 and I forgive him?" 432 00:20:32,189 --> 00:20:35,358 "As many as seven times." And then Jesus said, 433 00:20:35,442 --> 00:20:37,235 "I do not say to you seven times, 434 00:20:37,319 --> 00:20:39,237 but 70 times seven." 435 00:20:39,321 --> 00:20:41,114 So, it's like if we have to forgive 436 00:20:41,198 --> 00:20:44,534 our neighbor that much, and we have to love ourselves 437 00:20:44,618 --> 00:20:46,953 like we love our neighbor, then we also have 438 00:20:47,037 --> 00:20:48,830 to forgive ourselves that much. 439 00:20:52,834 --> 00:20:53,919 All right. 440 00:20:59,758 --> 00:21:01,467 - Hey. - Hi, guys. 441 00:21:01,551 --> 00:21:03,970 Hi, Remy. Do you remember Liam? 442 00:21:04,054 --> 00:21:05,680 - Yeah. - He's an actor, too. 443 00:21:05,764 --> 00:21:08,266 He played Adam also. He was at the birthday party, 444 00:21:08,350 --> 00:21:09,350 you switched with him. 445 00:21:09,434 --> 00:21:10,810 - Mm-hmm. - You remember him? 446 00:21:10,894 --> 00:21:12,020 Yeah. 447 00:21:12,104 --> 00:21:13,855 Three, two, one go. 448 00:21:13,939 --> 00:21:15,732 - No, no! - Oh. 449 00:21:15,816 --> 00:21:16,983 No! 450 00:21:17,067 --> 00:21:20,112 Forgiving yourself sounds so easy and nice. 451 00:21:20,737 --> 00:21:22,113 Watch out. 452 00:21:22,197 --> 00:21:24,992 But how does a person actually do that? 453 00:21:26,743 --> 00:21:28,703 He called me Nathan when I came in. 454 00:21:28,787 --> 00:21:29,829 Yeah. Totally. Mm-hmm. 455 00:21:29,913 --> 00:21:32,707 - So, what do you think? - I think he's... 456 00:21:32,791 --> 00:21:35,501 accepted it and he's kind of like, chill with it. 457 00:21:35,585 --> 00:21:37,378 He gets... He doesn't think I'm his... 458 00:21:37,462 --> 00:21:39,047 Yeah, he... he gets it for sure. 459 00:21:39,131 --> 00:21:40,590 - You think so? - Yeah. 460 00:21:43,635 --> 00:21:49,474 I think that he will be okay. I do. I think he'll be okay. 461 00:21:49,558 --> 00:21:51,601 How do you convince yourself of that? 462 00:21:51,685 --> 00:21:53,895 I didn't convince myself. I'm just gonna make sure 463 00:21:53,979 --> 00:21:56,814 he's okay, so he is and I just know. 464 00:21:56,898 --> 00:21:59,484 Like I just know. Like, I don't know how to explain it. 465 00:21:59,568 --> 00:22:01,986 It's something you won't know until you like have a kid 466 00:22:02,070 --> 00:22:04,030 if you do. 467 00:22:04,114 --> 00:22:06,950 What did you see in his face that makes you so sure? 468 00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:09,745 Myself. 469 00:22:11,329 --> 00:22:13,665 It's just one of those things, I don't know, you just know. 470 00:22:14,291 --> 00:22:15,292 Uh-huh. 471 00:22:15,792 --> 00:22:17,544 No! 472 00:22:18,045 --> 00:22:19,921 You strong, boy. 473 00:22:20,005 --> 00:22:22,298 Could it be that the path to forgiveness 474 00:22:22,382 --> 00:22:24,509 lies in someone else's eyes? 475 00:22:25,302 --> 00:22:26,970 Where'd you get that sweatshirt? 476 00:22:28,138 --> 00:22:29,681 Buckle. 477 00:22:29,765 --> 00:22:31,224 - Oh. - Yeah. 478 00:22:31,308 --> 00:22:32,684 - It's nice. - Thank you. 479 00:22:32,768 --> 00:22:35,186 Yep. 480 00:22:35,270 --> 00:22:37,355 What's your name again? 481 00:22:38,148 --> 00:22:39,149 Nathan. 482 00:22:40,108 --> 00:22:41,567 - Nathan. - Yeah. 483 00:22:41,651 --> 00:22:43,569 He is crazy. 484 00:22:43,653 --> 00:22:46,239 I just want to call you daddy. 485 00:22:46,323 --> 00:22:49,075 - We're not going back to that. - No, no, Nathan. 486 00:22:49,159 --> 00:22:50,910 That doesn't worry you? What just happened. 487 00:22:50,994 --> 00:22:53,872 No. No. 488 00:22:56,375 --> 00:22:58,126 Bye! 489 00:22:58,877 --> 00:23:01,004 Bye. See you later. 490 00:23:01,088 --> 00:23:02,964 My TV friends are leaving. 491 00:23:03,048 --> 00:23:04,549 Yes, they are. 492 00:23:04,633 --> 00:23:07,552 You may never be able to change what happened. 493 00:23:09,638 --> 00:23:12,223 But maybe with a new perspective, 494 00:23:12,307 --> 00:23:14,934 you could try to change yourself. 495 00:23:15,018 --> 00:23:17,186 - Did you get enough? - Yeah, I think so. 496 00:23:17,270 --> 00:23:18,980 Okay, good. Buckle up. 497 00:23:43,130 --> 00:23:44,172 Remy? 498 00:23:46,049 --> 00:23:47,175 - Yeah, Mom. - Hey, 499 00:23:47,259 --> 00:23:49,677 you wanna record that TV show audition now, baba? 500 00:23:49,761 --> 00:23:51,304 - What do you think? - Hmm, yeah. 501 00:23:51,388 --> 00:23:53,890 Yeah? Okay. Come on. 502 00:23:53,974 --> 00:24:00,980 Hi. I'm Remy. I live in Oregon. And I have so many toys 503 00:24:01,064 --> 00:24:03,775 that are in my room. Like, one, I have a... 504 00:24:03,859 --> 00:24:08,405 I have a Gru plushie. I really like to sleep with him... 505 00:24:21,501 --> 00:24:23,795 That's our house there. We're gonna be right there, huh? 506 00:24:24,296 --> 00:24:25,254 Whoa. 507 00:24:25,338 --> 00:24:26,464 - Cool, huh? - Mm-hmm. 508 00:24:27,382 --> 00:24:29,217 - Hey, Amber. - Hi. 509 00:24:29,301 --> 00:24:31,803 - And you must be Remy. - Yes. 510 00:24:31,887 --> 00:24:34,555 We're so excited to have you guys be a part of this. 511 00:24:34,639 --> 00:24:37,016 Uh, let me introduce you the director, right? 512 00:24:37,100 --> 00:24:38,684 It's a very unique project. 513 00:24:38,768 --> 00:24:40,061 - Okay. - Come inside. 514 00:24:40,145 --> 00:24:42,688 Do you guys have Hungry Hungry Hippos? 515 00:24:42,772 --> 00:24:43,940 We sure do. 516 00:24:44,774 --> 00:24:46,234 All right, so, uh... 517 00:24:46,318 --> 00:24:48,986 Sort of free form. We won't be sticking to a script. 518 00:24:49,070 --> 00:24:50,571 - Okay. - Uh, but of course, 519 00:24:50,655 --> 00:24:53,157 anything that happens inside the home will be sure 520 00:24:53,241 --> 00:24:56,202 - to clear with you beforehand. - Okay, great. 521 00:24:56,286 --> 00:24:58,704 Um, do you want me anywhere... 522 00:24:58,788 --> 00:25:00,039 Uh, well, uh... 523 00:25:00,123 --> 00:25:02,208 Yeah, you're... you're free to watch everything here 524 00:25:02,292 --> 00:25:03,709 - at the monitors. - Okay. 525 00:25:03,793 --> 00:25:04,836 - Thanks. - Okay. Yeah. 526 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,171 - Let me... I have to go. - Yeah, I'll see you. 527 00:25:14,471 --> 00:25:15,951 So, how are you today, Adam? 528 00:25:16,556 --> 00:25:18,599 Good. I'm good. 529 00:25:18,683 --> 00:25:20,685 Okay. What have you been doing? 530 00:25:20,769 --> 00:25:22,353 Just tidying up your room? 531 00:25:22,437 --> 00:25:24,313 He's kind of a weird dude, huh? 532 00:25:29,486 --> 00:25:32,822 Uh, can I get you some soda or sparkling water? 533 00:25:32,906 --> 00:25:34,198 - Oh, I'm okay. - You sure? 534 00:25:34,282 --> 00:25:35,741 - Thank you. Yeah, thank you. - Okay. 535 00:25:35,825 --> 00:25:37,577 Right. Well, let me know if you need anything. 536 00:25:37,661 --> 00:25:39,204 Sure, thank you so much. 537 00:25:44,334 --> 00:25:45,710 Do I get to see Daddy tomorrow? 538 00:25:45,794 --> 00:25:49,130 - You do. Does that sound good? - Yeah. 539 00:25:49,214 --> 00:25:51,340 You know he's your pretend daddy though, right? 540 00:25:51,424 --> 00:25:54,010 No, not... Don't, baba. 541 00:25:54,094 --> 00:25:55,553 Not on your nose. No, no, no. 542 00:25:55,637 --> 00:25:57,263 This is... This is gonna hurt you. 543 00:25:57,347 --> 00:25:58,973 Okay, you want some food? Are you hungry? 544 00:26:16,199 --> 00:26:19,160 - How was work today? - Good. Just busy. 545 00:26:19,244 --> 00:26:20,662 Mm-hmm. 546 00:26:22,038 --> 00:26:25,500 While you were at work today, he kept asking to see his dad. 547 00:26:26,501 --> 00:26:27,919 - Oh. - Do you know what's that about? 548 00:26:28,003 --> 00:26:29,670 Yeah, that's just the TV show he's been doing. 549 00:26:29,754 --> 00:26:31,214 I told you about that, Mom. 550 00:26:31,298 --> 00:26:35,301 Oh, right. 551 00:26:35,385 --> 00:26:38,554 Do you think he's a little young to be getting into acting? 552 00:26:39,931 --> 00:26:42,559 No, he's... He's having a lot of fun. 553 00:26:43,393 --> 00:26:45,562 I just worry about him sometimes. 554 00:26:50,108 --> 00:26:54,278 I love you, Daddy. 555 00:26:54,362 --> 00:26:56,822 - What did you say? - I love you, Daddy. 556 00:26:56,906 --> 00:26:59,825 Aw, I love you too, Adam. 557 00:26:59,909 --> 00:27:02,162 And what's... 558 00:27:06,291 --> 00:27:08,876 They said you're gonna have a birthday party soon, huh? 559 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,420 Oh. Is my daddy gonna be there? 560 00:27:11,504 --> 00:27:13,589 Yeah, he's your pretend daddy, baba. 561 00:27:13,673 --> 00:27:14,715 - Okay. - Okay. 562 00:27:14,799 --> 00:27:17,052 My pretend daddy loves me. 563 00:27:19,846 --> 00:27:22,515 - Come on in. Let's go. - Okay. 564 00:27:22,599 --> 00:27:25,935 - What's wrong? You sad? - You want a hug? 565 00:27:26,019 --> 00:27:27,228 You want to give him a hug? 566 00:27:27,312 --> 00:27:30,022 - No. - I could... will see you. 567 00:27:30,106 --> 00:27:32,483 We gotta go, okay? We can't stay here. 568 00:27:32,567 --> 00:27:34,902 - It's okay. - I don't wanna leave. I don't... 569 00:27:34,986 --> 00:27:36,195 You know Mommy has to go. 570 00:27:36,279 --> 00:27:37,989 You give him a hug. Say goodbye. 571 00:27:38,073 --> 00:27:39,282 No. 572 00:27:39,366 --> 00:27:42,451 I mean, it's just complicated because he's now seeing kids 573 00:27:42,535 --> 00:27:44,412 at school and they have their dads 574 00:27:44,496 --> 00:27:47,540 and he's kind of wondering where's his. 575 00:27:48,541 --> 00:27:51,086 You know. And so... 576 00:27:52,045 --> 00:27:54,422 it's just new to him. New concept. 577 00:27:56,091 --> 00:27:57,300 I get it. 578 00:27:58,051 --> 00:27:59,468 I hope it's okay. 579 00:27:59,552 --> 00:28:01,888 Yeah. Are you okay? 580 00:28:03,181 --> 00:28:05,392 Yeah, yeah. I'm okay. 581 00:28:09,145 --> 00:28:10,771 Okay. 582 00:28:10,855 --> 00:28:12,606 But I don't want you to be Nathan. 583 00:28:12,690 --> 00:28:15,234 - I want you to be daddy. - Right. 584 00:28:15,318 --> 00:28:18,904 But we are just pretending, right? 585 00:28:18,988 --> 00:28:24,410 And now, we're back to Remy and Nathan, okay? 586 00:28:24,494 --> 00:28:27,539 I don't want... I don't want you to be... 587 00:28:30,959 --> 00:28:34,003 I want him to be daddy. 588 00:28:35,755 --> 00:28:39,216 It's okay. It's okay. 589 00:28:39,300 --> 00:28:42,094 He said he wasn't my daddy anymore. 590 00:28:42,178 --> 00:28:44,055 I'm sorry, baba. That must've been very hard 591 00:28:44,139 --> 00:28:46,307 for you to hear. 592 00:28:46,391 --> 00:28:48,309 Why did he say he was my daddy? 593 00:28:48,393 --> 00:28:52,646 I know. That man didn't mean to confuse you, honey. 594 00:28:52,730 --> 00:28:54,648 He just didn't know what he was doing. 595 00:28:54,732 --> 00:28:57,651 You know, he... 596 00:28:57,735 --> 00:29:00,029 He's not that different from you. 597 00:29:00,113 --> 00:29:03,825 He's just figuring stuff out and messing up along the way. 598 00:29:06,619 --> 00:29:08,954 Maybe we shouldn't have done that show, huh? 599 00:29:09,038 --> 00:29:10,331 It's like a weird little weird thing 600 00:29:10,415 --> 00:29:11,957 for a little kid to be a part of. 601 00:29:12,041 --> 00:29:14,043 But you know what? 602 00:29:14,127 --> 00:29:16,420 Mommy's not perfect, okay? 603 00:29:16,504 --> 00:29:20,966 She makes mistakes too. And you're gonna make mistakes. 604 00:29:22,969 --> 00:29:25,513 Look at me, baba. You know what. 605 00:29:25,597 --> 00:29:27,474 I think it's a good thing that you're sad. 606 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,102 Because it shows that you have a heart. 607 00:29:31,186 --> 00:29:34,730 It shows that you can feel and you can love, 608 00:29:34,814 --> 00:29:36,690 and you can put your trust in others. 609 00:29:42,363 --> 00:29:43,989 Is that a smile I see? 610 00:29:44,073 --> 00:29:45,991 Is that another thing you're feeling there? 611 00:29:46,075 --> 00:29:47,493 A smile. 612 00:29:47,577 --> 00:29:49,453 How do you feel if tickle monster attacks you? 613 00:29:49,537 --> 00:29:51,247 Huh? 614 00:29:51,331 --> 00:29:52,457 See, 615 00:29:53,333 --> 00:29:54,834 life's better was surprises. 616 00:29:54,918 --> 00:29:57,002 I mean, some things you want to be prepared for, 617 00:29:57,086 --> 00:29:58,922 but you know what I mean. 618 00:30:00,632 --> 00:30:03,592 Oh, no, you got me! Tickle monster got me now. 619 00:30:03,676 --> 00:30:05,386 What the heck? 620 00:30:05,845 --> 00:30:07,096 That's weird. 621 00:30:07,180 --> 00:30:10,599 But you know what? It's okay if you get confused. 622 00:30:10,683 --> 00:30:12,685 It's okay if you get sad 623 00:30:12,769 --> 00:30:15,896 because no matter what you experience, 624 00:30:16,034 --> 00:30:17,511 we have each other. 625 00:30:18,274 --> 00:30:21,694 And I'm always gonna be here for you, okay? 626 00:30:21,778 --> 00:30:23,028 'Cause I'm your dad. 627 00:30:24,989 --> 00:30:26,950 I... Wait, I thought you were my mom. 628 00:30:40,463 --> 00:30:41,464 No. 629 00:30:44,509 --> 00:30:45,677 I'm your dad. 630 00:31:05,154 --> 00:31:07,238 Good boy. You wanna go play now? 631 00:31:07,323 --> 00:31:09,450 - Yeah, let's go. - Okay, let's go play. 632 00:31:11,703 --> 00:31:12,870 Let's go.